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Finding a Unicorn without the Engagement of Men - Newbies Seeking Advice

Mornings with Mizzy

Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle Influencer

Original Source: Mizzy Bender

Finding a Unicorn without the Engagement of Men - Newbies Seeking Advice

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Today's topis is a community submitted one from two newbies trying to find their way.

Q: We are married and new to the lifestyle. Me and my husband want to fulfill some fantasy's and learning a lot about the lifestyle and communicating. We are not full swingers we are looking for another single woman that is bi-sexual that would want to join us. How do we just connect with them and not all these other men commenting and making him feel that's what I am trying to do. I would love to be sexy and walk around and smile and attract other women, but I don't know how flirt with women. I need more confidence in that area. lol I am shy that's why pictures and visuals help. Please help us in any advise.

Upcoming Swingers Parties:

  • Mindbender Parties, Oct 29 * Rhode Island, Boo 5 : RSVP Mizzy's Boutique will be vending our adult shop including swingers pineapple, erotic games, floggers and so much more. Ladies Wicked Playground will be running the Dungeon. We will also be holding a costume contest for Best Couple, Sexist and Most Creative. Prizes from our sponsors.

  • Pour Some Sugar on Me * November 6th * Pennsylvania* RSVP to Mizzy's Boutique will be vending our adult shop including swingers pineapple, erotic games, floggers and so much more.

  • H&H Social Club is partnering with Fusion Parties * December 16 & 17 * New Hampshire This will be a two day event featuring 5 DJ's, 2 Nights of club and hotel floor parties, a pool party, speed dating, and naughty yankee swap!! You don't want to miss this event!!! Giveaway And Vending by Mizzy’s Boutique RSVP:

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Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.

Mizzy Bender is a 39 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Alternative Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.

Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created.

Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

Mizzy's Boutique Adult Novelties

Mizzy’s Boutique is a Swingers Alternative Lifestyle Boutique that creates high-quality swingers / alternative lifestyle clothing and tumblers. We carry a wide range of erotic games, home goods, naughty accessories, humorous sex related t-shirts, sex toys (fox tail butt plugs), and so much more for the mature adult.

Click here to see all that they have to offer. While you’re there, subscribe to the boutique website to receive discounts and new items released.


Why buy from Mizzy’s Boutique

✨Hand made, created by Mizzy Bender

✨High quality adult novelties

✨Trustworthy customer service

If you have any questions, please feel free to message us.


Mindbender Parties starts with you and your choices of how you embrace the lifestyle. From mild to wild, your kinks are our pleasures. We put a great deal of time and effort into our events to do our best to meet your every desires. Upon arrival, you'll be greeted by one of our event Security Staff who will introduce themselves and offer their service throughout the evening. Assuring your safety and comfort are our #1 priority. Once inside you'll have the opportunity to mix and mingle with a respectful and attractive crowd. From there, let your inhibitions guide you. Whether it is dancing the night away to our DJ, tempting and teasing the crowd on the pole, take a ride on the swing or letting it all hang out in the play area, we find that our crowd of real people come back again and again.

Our friends are yours and we hope your friends will become ours. ''Mindbender Parties: where life is anything but the ordinary!''


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